Do Children Grow Faster, Learn Too Much and Act More Adult Than Their Age? What Parents Ought To Know

Children Learn Too Much and Act More Adult Than Their Age  

'Listen to them talking and you will notice how much they know what they are not supposed to know.'

Nowadays, our children are free to watch whatever they want, why? We are never at home hence none really takes care of their vision and controls what they watch on TV, movies and even play video games. Our children are good friends for kids whose parents are don't-care-like hence accessing materials meant for adult audiences and on the list goes.

As parents struggle to keep up with technology and other stuff, some children are already practicing what they see. They would then pass on the info to those willing to listen, or innocently say something that hints of what they like doing when no one is watching.

Such kids are all over, ranging from as young as 5 years and on. These kids know a lot: from adult language to actual things adults do--- and yes! Willingness to teach others how the 'act' should be done.

Where did the society go wrong? A few days ago, one kid-- about 8 years old boy--, was heard saying 'Nataka kumshika yule manzi cha nguvu (I want to rape that girl.) Yep! His face showed he was serious about it. Ad given the chance he could have attempted his desires.

It hurts to know that most children who are going astray are the most loved kids. The boy in an example above is a notorious child whose mother would do anything to keep him safe, from blame, and from anything negative. The mother knows that her child needs serious help, but because of love she is not willing to let him helped.

Too much of something is poisonous, yes! Parents need to understand the limits of love. Love itself is not bad. It creates the basis of good family and understanding of the community as whole. However, if we let our feelings drive us we may be doing more harm than good to our children.

Why do you marry or get married?

marriage is all about being together as one (from meme center)

It has been the norm and the expectations of every parent are to see his daughter or son getting a family of his or her own and having a plus of grandchildren.

Marriage is an institution that the society looks upon as the obvious outcome is for the couple to definitely have children. And this is such a saturated issue such that couple who even go for a year without a child will obviously get curious questions from their immediate family members or even from their close friends.

So just recently, we were treated to some shocking news here in my country of a young man who chopped off his wife's hands accusing her of not conceiving for the seven years that they had been married. But then there were reports that the same man had corrective reproductive issues being the reason for their failing to have children and could not even own up to seek medical attention.

Getting into the institution of marriage means that as a man you are ready to step up into the shoes of being the head of a family and a wife as your partner.

For sure being parents to your own children is definitely what you look forward to, but what if this fails... Does it mean that this marriage is doomed to fail?This question would definitely have answers and to some extent, it depends on the individuals involved.

But then for couples who are not able to sire kids,the society comes in here.Let the society not condemn the couple like theirs is a life of crime and we need to shun the mentality that women are to blame here in this case.

Like for this incident,this lady lost her arms yet her husband failed to follow up on treatment that would maybe have rectified the situation though he still chose to blame his wife for their reason of not having children.

So the society ought to accept childless marriages

Listening and Learning About Them...

listen to them, and learn about them

The new girl in town is always the center of attention from the male and the female world. In male world, they wish they could to dominate her mind, her love and her world as whole.. but in female world they would want to make friendship with her, learn more about her past and secret life, and then admonish her to be very careful about what they fear the most. Is there any true link to her worries in life?

Well, the male world is always dominated by the team of hit-and-runs. In most cases, the people in this group only want to lure her into the love snare and escape with the piece of her broken heart. However, we have genuine people who only intend to guide her though, give her support whenever she needs one and be that ‘person’ she could rely on if she steps in the hot spot.

The most amazing thing about female world is the fact that she will have no real friend. Those who feign good are only there to make sure she is heading in the wrong direction. They would tell her stuff that will only result into the feeling of fear, veneration and despair. They would keep her busy with unrealistic gossip, keep her mind hot with stories about everything and everyone, and lastly give her advice that will only mislead her into a dreamy world. Then what? They would stand aside and laugh at every move she makes to figure out where the reality is and lastly, they will hate her for going against their say.


Is it true that women dislike one another? 

Who Was Fidel Castro Odinga, Did Kenyan Media Paint The Wrong Picture Of This Man?

The late Fidel Odinga

The late Raila Odinga's first born son Fidel Odinga has left many Kenyans asking themselves, how did he die, who was behind his untimely death and who was he when still alive!

 Well, a lot was said about this late young man and mostly labeled him as the way ward man who was ready to face anything, use his power to get whatever that he wanted and no law could touch him. Now in his death, we are baffled to understand him much better.

It is sad that during his prime time, the Kenyan media was so blind about his great achievements. They were always ready to report all bad happenings around him but little did they say about those great deeds he did for Kenya and for the society as whole. Is that what news is all about, tarnishing the name of a prominent person for the company's gains?

I never had a time to research about Fidel Odinga's life until I heard about death. Yes! I was one of those people who were misled by the Kenyan Media houses about the CORD leader's son. In my point of view, they painted a picture of the beast that lived and walked among us. They made me believe that Fidel was only good in causing havoc in public, partying, and enjoying every bit of life without caring about his future.

The stories that revolved around him now are questionable after it has emerged that:

1.      He was a good business person who had invested heavily in Kenya,

2.      He was running a sponsorship program for less privileged students in the society

3.      He loved his people so much and was always ready to stand for them.

4.       He was a sponsor of the rugby team in his rural home.

5.      He was so close to the leaders from all political divide and some actually seek his advice.

And so many other things that were never reported by the mainstream media in Kenya.
Should we ask why the Kenya Media was so interested in Fidel Odinga’s negative lifestyle? I guess we lack professionalism in handling stories that emerge in our midst. A good story should be informative, yes! However, not to the extent of painting wrong images in people’s minds.

The late Fidel Castro Odinga will be laid to rest on Saturday 10^th, 2015 at Jaramogi Oginga Odinga cemetery, Bondo.

Pet Dog Kill Owner On Christmas Day

vicious dog kill owner

Christmas celebrations were cut short in a certain village in Kenya after the dog  turned against his owner and killed him.

Why did a well-known docile dog end up being vicious to his owner? This is what people kept on asking themselves after an incident that has left the village in disbelieve.

It is not clear how the dog went on a biting spree, killing his owner and leaving the family wounded by dog-bites.

This incident happened on December 25, Christmas day, when the dog owner fed his friendly animal with certain African herbs that turned the dog into a dangerous domestic animal.

The reason behind this move was to avoid further loses of his hard-earned property from falling into the hands of thieves. Therefore, he thought that having a fierce dog is the best way to keep thieves away but with a minimum cost.

A rumour has it that the man acquired the said herbs from a Maasai medicine man with an intention of curing his headache. However, someone accidentally mixed the colourless concoction with dog food during feeding time and hence creating a problem that came to haunt the family after some hours.

Veterinary office in the village sent someone to take care of the dog and those injured were rushed to hospital for treatment as the  family man will be buried later this week.

The police are still investigating the matter and are asking the public to come out with information that could help them identify the real cause of the family ordeal.

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