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| Self-desperation denies you a reason to see beyond how you feel |
You have been searching for a ‘you’ in yourself but you are so unfortunate to find anything worth holding onto. Your friends say you do not even qualify to be in their midst, in other words, you are a bother. Then what?
Well, life sucks if you do not understand yourself. It is tricky! You may feel you have nothing that makes you stand and be counted amongst the people. A feeling that takes you to that moment whereby nothing about you makes any meaning in life. You feel desperate for recognition but something tells you that you will live in that doomed state forever.
Think of a state between desperation and hopelessness in life. Sad beyond anyone’s wishes but great that you can really overcome and become a celebrity of your own. However, you need to focus your mind on these simple tricks.
First, learn to stay calm and positively motivated.
---To understand yourself, take time alone and ask yourself these simple question…
-Who are you?
-What are you?
-What do you wanna be?
You know what? Everything good or everything bad usually happens in your mind. If you think negatively about yourself, then do not expect other people to see you differently. Having a positive desire to be what you wanna be, originates from inside your head and goes from there. What you believe happens to carry the message to your personal behaviors.
So, if you are ready then move to part two…
Be sure of what you want in life and struggle to achieve that goal
---That move may seem so difficult to you since you do not trust yourself with simple life challenges. However, if you learn to give it a try then you will be amazed how good you are and how great you can be. A good start is measured by yours first achievement—something to focus your mind on.
Thirdly, don’t be shy and go alone when you know other people might be willing to walk with you.
---Now, you are calm and motivated to kick start your adventure n life. You are sure of what you want and nothing can take your mind from it. What then? Great, that marks the beginning of ‘real you’ against the world. You may make mistakes at the beginning but be ready to face the whole negative lot on your way to smashing goals.
Nevertheless, if it happens that you are stuck and having no clues on how to go about it, be bold enough and ask for directions from someone you know would assist you out. It is easy that way than to hit the dead end and lose your will in pursuing your goals.
Moreover, be ready to help those struggling to reach there.
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| Be inspired to reach for those who are desperate |
---Guessing by how you started and the progress made, why not offer a hand to those who are struggling along the path to success? It is easy to give than to receive something in life, but if you help someone who is struggling; that person will never miss to give you thumbs up for a good job. And that is how you achieve happiness in what you do in life.
Parting shot!
In life, you have to start from somewhere and do not let anyone interfere with your mind. Be focused, be determined and pursue your dreams to the fullest. Do not be mean to others and be happy for who you are.
