How To Use Jealousness For Positive Gains

Jealous can be defined as a feeling of anger or dissatisfaction all due to another person’s personal achievements or due to being successful.

Jealous Kid 

You can all agree that we sometimes get jealous of what somebody has or has so far achieved and even children are not an exception when it comes to this feeling.

Take for example a child who becomes an outstanding kid for being a new owner of a maybe a new toy that no other child has ever got the chance to have.In this case as much as other kids will admire the new toy and befriend the owner in order to be allowed to play with it,you will still find a kid who will do something to destroy the toy, and I think this is some form of jealous to make the new toy owner a sad owner.

But then if you allow this inward feeling of jealous to really get saturated in you as you think what you can do to make your colleague get pulled down,what really happens is he or she will still move more and more ahead of you.

Remember they are not concerned with you because they definitely do not know about your ill motives.Then what characterizes it all ,you have to keep it to yourself and pretend that you are happy for their achievements. But then do you have time to think what an ugly scene it would be if it can be unearthed that you are the jealous type?If that jealous can be seen then you would be very unlucky to having to deal with the wrath of being a pretender.

So don’t allow jealous into being someone who can make the lives of others messy yet they have really worked hard to be where they are.

Let their achievements be a challenge for you and so this becomes an encouragement that you can really climb a high ladder like your colleagues.

This means that your jealous must be a positive jealous whereby you ought to feel free,approach your colleagues and ask for guidance that will make you be like them one day.

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