Why You Have To Love Yourself First!

Love starts with you!

Many of us like being loved, right? That is cool because even the tyrant do not like being hated. The most important thing about life is all about accepting who you are and minding what others think about you. If you impose force into someone's mind, either to love you or fear you, you lose! This lose may come when you do not expect it and may end up being the worst setback in your love en-devours in life.

If you love yourself, then you would understand other people much better. The more you hate someone, the more the chances that you will never find peace in your mind.

Unconditional Love To who? How? When? And Why?

As a human being, you can only pretend that you do not care. Or maybe, you do care but you shut down those important feelings towards other people. Making your heart so scared to feel the pain and sorrow for someone else's troubles. The more the fearful heart, the more the chances of making a wrong move towards other people. The caring part of you declines showing up in time and eventually, people will evade you like deadly poison.

Take care of that love,

Love yourself more before giving out some,

Be there for those you care for and show some desire to help....

Have your say but let others have a discussion about the same issue,

Train your mind to accept defeat and love changes where necessary...

Well, we are humans and sometimes we do things before thinking over and over again why we did it and for what purpose. Cool! An apology comes in when you know you went wrong someone and someone got hurt in that process. Love is like light that illuminates through in all curves of life.

And yes! Give out much love and expect none from those you care for...

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How Mean People Are Darlings For The Majority

most leaders are not there for the needy, poor people love them but they (leaders) do not really care...

That mean personality defines what a leader you are. The fact that leadership means giving a deaf ear to the majority and being so close to the minority gives one hope that if the time gets so ripe, then leadership is a job to go for.

In the whole world, great leaders are defined by how good they can be to the selected few and how mean they can go when it comes to dealing with the majority. People seems to like it when their leader does have a heart to help, but gives it out when time is favorable for such an act. Leaders who seem to listen and sympathize with the majority have no chance to remain in power for long. The system that controls leadership in the society feels neglected and hence threatened for their course in life.

In Kenyan for example, the best president that the majority would wish to die for is that person who is never close to his loyal supporters. The more the valley from the common man, the better the chances gaining more trust, and that untainted love from the commoners. One wonders why this is so!

Look at Raila Odinga for example. He is a national leader whose legacy lies deep in ghetto areas in Nairobi. He has nothing great to show as an emblem of his glorious days but still he controls majority of regions and population in Kenya.

Another guy, a good example is Peter Kenneth. The man who was devoted to his people. The man whom Kenyans knows as the best performer as far as national development is concerned, but Kenyans would rather go for Uhuru Kenyatta whose legacy is blanketed with corruption scandals in his government. So ironical ha!

Well, here is an advice for anyone who wants to reach there—in power. Pretend to care, be good to the minority and forget about the majority.