When do love become replaced by so much hate?

Anger and brutality 

For quite sometime now,news of a lover killing his or her love or a husband killing a wife and vice versa has become part of us in the society with these heinous acts continue to rise at a very alarming rate.The most recent incident is that of a fresh graduate being brutally murdered by her boyfriend with claims that she had threatened to dump him.

This is just one of the many incidents that our news people have been reporting yet even as shocking as they may be,we still tend forget and move on.The sad part is most of these incidents involve our young people especially the college material whom the society brands as grown-ups who know what is right and wrong and after all are aware what they are doing.But my take on this is,does going to the university or even a college mean that  you are on your own as parents now think you are of age.

For two young young people to have a close relationship that blossoms into love,then its obvious they know this is part of life that will take them places.Then the question is why do most young lovers think that if they disagree to the extent of parting ways that death is the only solution?They need to know being in a romantic relationships exposes them to open fields of quarrels or fights but by the end of it all,how they go about tackling the problems at hand matters a lot.

The young people need to know that if you break up with your love,you ought to be positive about it for you to be ready to move on.A broken relationship is still part of life and who knows may be this relationship was after-all a hindrance to better things in store for you.

So I think such sad  incidents should not slip from our minds so fast and as parents and the lecturers for our young people in colleges or universities,we have a role to play.By this I mean the young people need to have counselling sessions in the learning institutions and this is where parents come in due to financing such sessions.After all young people need guidance in most aspects of life.