How To Overcome Self-desperation, 4 Tricks That You Need

Self-desperation denies you a reason to see beyond how you feel

You have been searching for a ‘you’ in yourself but you are so unfortunate to find anything worth holding onto. Your friends say you do not even qualify to be in their midst, in other words, you are a bother. Then what?

Well, life sucks if you do not understand yourself. It is tricky! You may feel you have nothing that makes you stand and be counted amongst the people. A feeling that takes you to that moment whereby nothing about you makes any meaning in life. You feel desperate for recognition but something tells you that you will live in that doomed state forever. 

Think of a state between desperation and hopelessness in life. Sad beyond anyone’s wishes but great that you can really overcome and become a celebrity of your own. However, you need to focus your mind on these simple tricks.

First, learn to stay calm and positively motivated.

---To understand yourself, take time alone and ask yourself these simple question…

-Who are you?

-What are you?

-What do you wanna be?

You know what? Everything good or everything bad usually happens in your mind. If you think negatively about yourself, then do not expect other people to see you differently. Having a positive desire to be what you wanna be, originates from inside your head and goes from there. What you believe happens to carry the message to your personal behaviors.

So, if you are ready then move to part two…

Be sure of what you want in life and struggle to achieve that goal

---That move may seem so difficult to you since you do not trust yourself with simple life challenges. However, if you learn to give it a try then you will be amazed how good you are and how great you can be. A good start is measured by yours first achievement—something to focus your mind on.

Thirdly, don’t be shy and go alone when you know other people might be willing to walk with you.

---Now, you are calm and motivated to kick start your adventure n life. You are sure of what you want and nothing can take your mind from it. What then? Great, that marks the beginning of ‘real you’ against the world. You may make mistakes at the beginning but be ready to face the whole negative lot on your way to smashing goals. 

Nevertheless, if it happens that you are stuck and having no clues on how to go about it, be bold enough and ask for directions from someone you know would assist you out. It is easy that way than to hit the dead end and lose your will in pursuing your goals.

Moreover, be ready to help those struggling to reach there.

Be inspired to reach for those who are desperate 

---Guessing by how you started and the progress made, why not offer a hand to those who are struggling along the path to success? It is easy to give than to receive something in life, but if you help someone who is struggling; that person will never miss to give you thumbs up for a good job. And that is how you achieve happiness in what you do in life.

Parting shot!

In life, you have to start from somewhere and do not let anyone interfere with your mind. Be focused, be determined and pursue your dreams to the fullest. Do not be mean to others and be happy for who you are. 

4 Powerful Start-up Tips For New Writers

A writer never waits for chances.

What determines a writer in you? Let’s say you have a strong feeling that you have all it takes to conquer the writing world. However, it has only happened in your mind, since no one else has seen your crafted piece to ascertain your skills. Oops! You never know unless you let the world tell you where you stand and how you can improve your status as a writer.

Here are four steps to perfect your writing career. 

Arise and write... 

First, you have to stand somewhere. You just can't say you are good when you know very well that you haven't even started.

Secondly, the word 'I will' should not be in your vocabulary. Winners take a challenge when it presents itself, but those who doubt about their abilities keeps on postponing a challenge until they eventually quit.

Thirdly, take people’s reviews very seriously. If they say 'you have a long way to go', take the reviews as your baseline and go from there. If it needs delving deeply in learning how to write better, then do it without a second thought.

Live by your will not your say; best things in life come after a very hard struggle. And to perfect your writing career, you need to see the reason why you have to write, live by writing, take your career as your only best friend whom you never wanna lose. If you say you will do it later, then start preparing earlier before going down to business; produce a masterpiece for your client or blog.

In writing, there is always a second shot. If you happen to do badly at the initial stage, then learn do be better.

Read more stuff, practice new challenging tasks, ask questions from those who have already excelled in this career and apply your skills to the best of your knowledge. After that, go for it once more.

A writer reaches this stage someday

Writing is fun when you have reached a level of no return. The time when you have mastered the ‘hidden secret’ and the demand for your art is skyrocketing. 

Are You Politically Proudly Kenyan? Then You Are Misleading This Nation

politically proudly Kenyans are misleading the nation
and they don't know it either.

Kenyans are good in forgetting important things! Let's see if this is true...

Someone said, "Forgetfulness and ignorance are the core to stupidity." I guess he was right because those people who are still proudly Kenyans are in this group, and the country cries because of them. 

Frankly blogging, real  Kenyans have never been proud of their country-- politically. In many occasions, they think they won only to realize later that team 'Kula Nyama' set them up.

The ordinary Mwananchi has been losing every time a ray of hope seems so obvious. In this case, Kenyans have been cheated with good deals but instead of thinking twice, they act like church mice --- going for poisoned piece of cheese instead of asking themselves why, beyond chance, they just found misplaced sweet deals.

In Kenya, we have the eaters, in other words, the corrupt individuals who make deals behind our backs. Then they show up in broad-day to sell their new invention to us. It is this time that the so-called politically proudly Kenyans would start shouting hallelujah for no good reason. The fools fall for booby traps when they see them,huh!

There is no time for being so reluctant to see the reality. Open your eyes and see what crooks do in the darkness, open you ears and listen to what they say behind your back, walk with them and refuse to dine with them--- that is how you learn to differentiate the good, the bad and the ugly.

The current state of corruption in Kenya is appalling. But since the fools have been in the forefront in campaigning for the corrupt guys, the looters are still winning and everyone else is losing this battle of wits. 

They say, ‘Don’t underestimate the power of the ignorant majority—foolish individuals’. Actually, this confirms that politically proudly Kenyans have been foolish since the day this nation was made independent. Or else,why fight along with the beast from you backyard instead of coming up with a plan to do away with it?

Kenyans are forgetful...

This is not true! Kenyans do not forget easily. In most cases, they assume and do stupid mistakes that ends up hurting everything they hoped for. 

Think again about the power of ignorance. The Huyu ni wetu mentality makes Kenyans choose the leader based on where he or she comes from instead of choosing an individual based on the ‘thing’ that makes the person an exceptional leader. Watch them closely. See how they defend a corrupt individual. Oops! Their ignorance can’t see the rot in an accused, instead they see the rot in the people surrounding the individual. 

This is mind game of the wicked in the society. They set up a bar so high that only realists would see. The net they cast catches those who are still proudly Kenyans, or the ignorant lot that has refused to create an avenue of hope and change that Kenya need.

Urging a proudly Kenyan to make a political right decision is like telling him or her to choose a tribal leader and be ready to die trying to defend him/her to the core. So sad! That is how corruption thrives in our country. That is why we do not have many choices in choosing a better leader. The ignorant majority, corruption, and tribalism always win.

Do Children Grow Faster, Learn Too Much and Act More Adult Than Their Age? What Parents Ought To Know

Children Learn Too Much and Act More Adult Than Their Age  

'Listen to them talking and you will notice how much they know what they are not supposed to know.'

Nowadays, our children are free to watch whatever they want, why? We are never at home hence none really takes care of their vision and controls what they watch on TV, movies and even play video games. Our children are good friends for kids whose parents are don't-care-like hence accessing materials meant for adult audiences and on the list goes.

As parents struggle to keep up with technology and other stuff, some children are already practicing what they see. They would then pass on the info to those willing to listen, or innocently say something that hints of what they like doing when no one is watching.

Such kids are all over, ranging from as young as 5 years and on. These kids know a lot: from adult language to actual things adults do--- and yes! Willingness to teach others how the 'act' should be done.

Where did the society go wrong? A few days ago, one kid-- about 8 years old boy--, was heard saying 'Nataka kumshika yule manzi cha nguvu (I want to rape that girl.) Yep! His face showed he was serious about it. Ad given the chance he could have attempted his desires.

It hurts to know that most children who are going astray are the most loved kids. The boy in an example above is a notorious child whose mother would do anything to keep him safe, from blame, and from anything negative. The mother knows that her child needs serious help, but because of love she is not willing to let him helped.

Too much of something is poisonous, yes! Parents need to understand the limits of love. Love itself is not bad. It creates the basis of good family and understanding of the community as whole. However, if we let our feelings drive us we may be doing more harm than good to our children.

DP Ruto Worried As Mt. Kenya Voting Bloc Seems Ready to Fly Away in 2022

Peter Kenneth to vie for Nairobi Gubernatorial seat on Jubilee party ticket. Is he a threat to DP Ruto's
Presidential bid in 2022? (pic: peterkenneth website)

It comes a time when desperation forces a human being to act like a fool. This comes in when everything that seemed to be in place disarranges itself into chaotic ends.

Politics in Kenya has been marred with betrayal and mending of ties. It is not a wonder how this is being weighed with acute concerns. Others political elites giving warnings that Uhuru's ethnic group has to repay Rift Valley votes.

In Kenyan politics, especially the rift valley politics, everything was great until recently that all the plans stuck on the pendulum. The Peter Kenneth factor in Jubilee politics is a killer for DP Ruto's ambitious 2022 presidential dreams in  Kenya.

Peter Kenneth comes in Jubilee politics as a clean man with full potential to lead Nairobi County into greater heights. His Presidential bid in 2013 gives him an upper hand in Nairobi gubernatorial race. However, Peter Kenneth is only threatened by the current Nairobi Senator, Mike Sonko, who is also determined to vie for Nairobi Governorship on Jubilee party ticket.

Rumors has it Mt. Kenya region is grooming P. Kenneth for 2022 presidential elections. This region is known for supporting their own in politics and it only remains a miracle if they would support DP William Ruto in 2022--- according to Jubilee Party MOU.

Early, there were speculations that the deal between him and the current president of Kenya, H.E Uhuru Kenyatta will not hold. The TNA governor once openly said his region will not honor the deal. The URP side experienced some wrangles about this but the president came out and calmed the issue. 

The looming standoff between the Rift Valley and Mt.Kenya region will definitely affect President Uhuru's reelection bid that is just around the corner. The fear of betrayal is enough to make things cold in the Jubilee campaigns. If this happens, then it will be the big blow to the president and his deputy--- and their MOU might not hold any longer.